Thread:Cartoon44/@comment-1616746-20140930224532/@comment-1616746-20141001000432

Cartoon44 wrote: Bridgetterocks wrote: Cartoon44 wrote: Bridgetterocks wrote: Cartoon44 wrote: Bridgetterocks wrote: Cartoon44 wrote: Bridgetterocks wrote: Cartoon44 wrote: ...Dude. The FanCon has been planned for more than a month now. If you wanted to know about the date of the FanCon, you could've just asked. I wasn't even informed of it being planned. Didn't need to. It's an annual event. Only reason why we didn't have one in the Summer was because everyone was busy. Well, I can't predict that, can I? If you're talking about admin business, you need to inform me too. You can't expect me to guess everything. And that isn't obvious as you are implying, it's something you and X talked about and didn't even tell me about.

And YES, YOU DO NEED TO INFORM ME ABOUT THAT STUFF BECAUSE I AM AN ADMIN TOO

Yes, you are an admin, and I'm sorry you feel discluded but honestly I don't think this needs discussion because this didn't require much meeting. X and I thought everyone knew when the date was of the FanCon seeming that it is every season. We didn't even talk that much about this, anyway. That's the problem with you two. There aren't three admins here, there are only two real admins and one who just has the "ADMIN" next to the username. You two run the show and I stand back and watch. It happened with the Merge, it happens now. I can never have a voice here because you two talk about everything in private. You really need to change that because I am an active user of this Wiki and MANY articles here are under my authory, so PLEASE, stop being so secretive between you two and count me in. I'm not expecting us to have an Skype call or whatever but at least a formal admin meeting and then we don't have to speak anymore and you two can carry on with your whispering. Workwise, you HAVE to include me in the decisions rather than assuming between you two. We're not making it that way, you're putting it in your head. You are still a contributing member of the admin team and there is no problem there. We're all a team here and to be honest, we haven't had much admin meetings to begin with. We're not 'whispering' behind your back, whenever we do talk we feel that whatever we need to talk about does not need a big discussion. If you want a meeting, if you want information, then contact us and just let us know when and where you want to meet and we can all chat together. That's all it takes. I never thought of you less than anyone else on the admin team, so please don't feel that way. And just to let you know, we aren't secretive because we know what needs contacting and what isn't. I hope you can realize we aren't discluding you. How can I know when you're talking about something or not? And yes you whisper behind my back, you have since the Merge. I'm old enough to notice when someone does. And I'm not saying you say "let's not tell Bridgette about this", I just feel you forget I exist. I feel you two forget there's a third one here and that with you two talking about it is enough. But guess what, it's not. Whenever you're talking to X about admin business, remember THERE ARE THREE ADMINS, NOT TWO. If you wanna take decisions on your own, give me a valid reason and take my adminship away so you two can arrange everything in a duo just like you love doing it. It just takes a valid reason and I'm out. Just don't make me feel like my work and I are nothing to this Wiki because I know I am something. Give me a valid reason so you two can go back to being two again (which won't be any different since the  lovey-dovey duo does everything on its own) No, we haven't whispered behind your back, and I'm almost positive that we informed you of the Merge when it was in the works. You don't even need to worry about the Merge, it ended like a month ago or so anyway. And we didn't even meet (X or me) about this, things just happened that I can discuss with you if you want later. I never intended to make you feel that you weren't apart of the team and if you wanted to discuss with us than you could've just asked for a meeting as I've been telling you. We are a team Bridgette and it doesn't just take X or me to tell you that. As an admin community, we don't meet a lot but it doesn't require a lot of meetings to make small decisions around here. Quite frankly, we haven't been making big decisions lately that involves all admins, if not none- in a while, really. I can't recall the last one besides the merge. And if you want to go discussing the FanCon again, read my reply to that. You should read it over thoroughly and understand that it doesn't take a meeting every FanCon. We all should know it happens semi-annually without worry. We want you as an admin, Bridgette, but give us the benefit of the doubt and trust that we aren't leaving you behind. Please. And don't be defensive, because I am trying to make this discussion as argue-less as possible. I was informed about the Merge but I voted yes just because you two did. I don't know if X told you that but it's true. I did X mostly a favor because of how badly he wanted it, because to be honest I didn't want it. That's why once the Merge was official, when X said he was leaving, I got pissed. Because I voted yes for him and he was leaving. X knows this already. And I found out about the merge dissolving thanks to OmniWill and not one of you, as it should've happened as it's under the Important tag according to you. Another example right there of how I'm never informed about IMPORTANT stuff in the Wiki I am an admin of. And second, I am not only an admin, I am an author and a VERY regular poster, so I needed to know if there was gonna be a second Con and when because I wanted to post stuff and now I won't have time. That's another reason why I am REALLY mad. If I weren't an author, I wouldn't be this mad, but I think I have the largest fanfiction in this site and not being able to post some REALLY interesting content I wanted to post makes me REALLY REALLY mad.

And how would you get if you felt left out, Toon? You have no clue because X loves you and you love him too so you wouldn't ignore each other. But as I said on another post, I'm the third wheel here. You two are friends, and I used to be friends with you, closer to X than you but anyway. But thanks to the f-ing favor I did to X regarding the Merge, now you two give your back on me and leaving me behind. I tried to give X a second chance but he's being rude with me, so why even trying if no one here actually likes me? Anyway, I don't need to be friends with either you or him, and I'm not being rude, just honest. I just need this to work as a trio and not a duo. You two can have your friendship and dislike me all you want but PLEASE be professional enough to put that aside when it comes to the adminship. If you can't do that, I'm afraid you two aren't ready to be admins.