Thread:Uncanny X-Factor/@comment-5041674-20170506230005/@comment-5927539-20170508184152

I'm so sorry I haven't responded yet, BT. I waited because I figured that maybe the perfect advice would come to me. That I could offer some sage wisdom if I waited.

But the truth is, I can't.

If I waited any longer, I'd be too rude. If I'd spoken sooner I might have short-sighted something. But the best advice here would come from experience, which I don't have. Both of my grandfathers are dead, one of cancer, but he died long before I was born. And my grandmothers are alive and well. So I don't have much to say, I'm afraid. Except to say that the death of a loved one is not something you "get over", you just accept it and continue living. With time, of course.